Monday, October 15, 2012
Who's Teaching Values to Our Children?
How do your children learn moral values? Who's teaching them moral values? Are they learning moral values from television, friends, church, school. Who's teaching them etiquette, sexual values, relationship skils, financial information.
Right and wrong is increasingly becoming blurred. What was once common sense, or seemed to be so, is no longer known. At one time television shows mirrored the values of society, now the majority of television is leading society, our youth especially, to accepting more and more amoral behavior.
We may love our friends dearly but their values may not be the same as ours. Our friends may lead our children astray. One parent reported that her teen age daughter went to the store with her friend and her friend's mother. The mother was shoplifting while they were in the store. We can't entrust this job to others.
Church woould be a very good place for our children to learn morals and values, however, a reinforcement of values on a weekly basis, is just that a weekly reinforcement. Church will not take the place of consistent daily reinforcement of moral values.
More and more work have been piled on teachers. They are responsibile for teaching reading, writing, spelling, mathematice, history, science, sex education, social skills, manage behavior, and a whole slew of other tasks. Teachers are struggling with the children in their classrooms. With all of the tasks that has to be completed there is no time left to focus on moral behavior. Do we want them to be responsibile for that task?
It takes intentional effort to get teach moral values to young people. It is an easier task when everyone has the same values. It is more important to live morally, than to just talk about being moral. It's not acceptable to tell your children to be honest, while you by action or words demonstrate dishonest behavior.
Children and teens will not just pick up good moral values. These values have to be taught. it's important to intentionally teach moral values to our children. Our efforts have to be consistent, and age appropriate.
Whose values do your children have? How did they learn these values.
Right and wrong is increasingly becoming blurred. What was once common sense, or seemed to be so, is no longer known. At one time television shows mirrored the values of society, now the majority of television is leading society, our youth especially, to accepting more and more amoral behavior.
We may love our friends dearly but their values may not be the same as ours. Our friends may lead our children astray. One parent reported that her teen age daughter went to the store with her friend and her friend's mother. The mother was shoplifting while they were in the store. We can't entrust this job to others.
Church woould be a very good place for our children to learn morals and values, however, a reinforcement of values on a weekly basis, is just that a weekly reinforcement. Church will not take the place of consistent daily reinforcement of moral values.
More and more work have been piled on teachers. They are responsibile for teaching reading, writing, spelling, mathematice, history, science, sex education, social skills, manage behavior, and a whole slew of other tasks. Teachers are struggling with the children in their classrooms. With all of the tasks that has to be completed there is no time left to focus on moral behavior. Do we want them to be responsibile for that task?
It takes intentional effort to get teach moral values to young people. It is an easier task when everyone has the same values. It is more important to live morally, than to just talk about being moral. It's not acceptable to tell your children to be honest, while you by action or words demonstrate dishonest behavior.
Children and teens will not just pick up good moral values. These values have to be taught. it's important to intentionally teach moral values to our children. Our efforts have to be consistent, and age appropriate.
Whose values do your children have? How did they learn these values.
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We downloaded short stories with strong morals at the end. Our kids listen to them and love them. Here's the link if anyone is interested. http://www.twirlygirlshop.com/moral-stories-for-kids
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