For many years I believed that December was the month that listed
the highest number of suicides. Recent research is challenging that belief.
Researchers now say that there are no more suicides in December than in
any other month of the year. Researchers have found that during the
month of December people feel more deeply, than any other months.
In other words, those who are in love report that they feel love more
deeply. Those who are generous in nature are even more generous than
usual. The research reports that likewise, if individuals are suffering from a
loss, he may feel more alone. If an individual suffers from anxiety the
feeling of anxiety will be more intense as well.
Being aware and forewarned can help us sidestep explosive episodes
with our teens; prevent destructive patterns of communication from
ruining the holiday season; and we may even be able to build stronger
relationships with our teens. This month presents opportunities for a lot of
good, and a lot of bad. What’s good in our lives could become better, and
what’s bad could become worse.
Enjoying the holiday season takes mental preparation. So brace
yourself for the intense feelings that come in December, and enjoy them as
much as possible.